Monday, September 17, 2012
Omggg, im still stuck in holidays mood.
The worst part is forcing myself to wake up earlier and drag my ass off to college. sigh!
i've to work harder and harder... gambateh kudasai everyone.
Watched fast and furious five with shanhui
♥♥ watch this movie for twice! Awesome movie.. i likey!
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Thursday, March 29, 2012
that's what we called love!
不管你有沒有男朋友，有沒有女朋友，都過來把它讀完，寫的真是那
... 你發覺了嗎？
愛的感覺，總是在一開始覺得很甜蜜，
總覺得多一個人陪，多一個人幫你分擔，
你終於不再孤單了，至少有一個人想著你，
戀著你，不論做什麼事情，
只要能一起，就是好的....
... ...
....但是慢慢的，隨著彼此的認識愈深，
你開始發現了對方的缺點，
於是問題一個接著一個發生，
你開始煩，累，甚至想要逃避，
有人說愛情就像在撿石頭，
總想撿到一個適合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什麼時候能夠撿到呢？
他/她適合你，那你又適合他/她嗎？
其實，愛情就像磨石子一樣，
或許剛撿到的時候，你不是那麼的滿意，
但是記住人是有彈性的，
很多事情是可以改變的，
只要你有心，有勇氣，
與其到處去撿未知的石頭，
還不如好好的將自己已經擁有的石頭磨亮，你開始磨了嗎？
很多人以為是因為感情淡了，
所以人才會變得懶惰。
錯！
其實是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才會變淡的。
在某個聚餐的場合，
有人提議多吃點蝦對身體好，
這時候有個中年男人忽然說「十年前，當我老婆還是我的女朋友
現在，如果她要我幫她剝蝦殼，開玩笑！我連幫她脫衣服都沒興
聽到了嗎？明白了嗎？
難怪越來越多人只想要談一輩子的戀愛，
卻遲遲不肯走入婚姻。
因為，婚姻容易讓人變得懶惰。
如果每個人都
懶得講話、
懶得傾聽、
懶得製造驚喜、
懶得溫柔體貼，
那麼夫妻或是情人之間，
又怎麼會不漸行漸遠漸無聲呢？
所以請記住：
有活力的愛情，
是需要適度殷勤灌溉的，
談戀愛，更是不可以偷懶的喔！
有一對情侶，相約下班後去用餐，逛街，
可是女孩因為公司會議而延誤了，
當她冒著雨趕到的時候已經遲到了30多分鐘，
他的男朋友很不高興的說：
你每次都這樣，現在我什麼心情也沒了，
我以後再也不會等你了！
剎那間，女孩終於決堤崩潰了，
她心裡在想：或許，他們再也沒有未來了
同樣的在同一個地點，另一對情侶也面臨同樣的處境;
女孩趕到的時候也遲到了半個鐘頭，
他的男朋友說：“我想你一定忙壞了吧！”
接著他為女孩拭去臉上的雨水，並且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上，
此刻，女孩流淚了
但是流過她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的。
你體會到了嗎？
其實愛，恨往往只是在我們的一念之間！
愛不僅要懂得寬容更要及時，
很多事可能只是在於你心境的轉變罷了！
懂了嗎？
當有個人愛上你，而你也覺得他不錯。
那並不代表你會選擇他。
我們總說：“我要找一個自己很愛很愛的人，才會談戀愛。”
但是當對方問你，怎樣才算是很愛很愛的時候，
你卻無法回答他，因為你自己也不知道。
沒錯，我們總是以為，我們會找到一個自己很愛很愛的人。
可是後來，當我們猛然回首，我們才會發覺自己曾經多麼天真。
假如從來沒有開始，你怎麼知道自己會不會很愛很愛那個人呢？
其實，很愛很愛的感覺，是要在一起經歷了許多事情之後才會發現的
或許每個人都希望能夠找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侶，
所以，還是仔細看看身邊的人吧！他或許已經等你很久了
當你愛一個人的時候，愛到八分絕對剛剛好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下兩三分用來愛自己。
如果你還繼續愛得更多，很可能會給對方沉重的壓力，讓彼此喘不過
完全喪失了愛情的樂趣。
所以請記住，
喝酒不要超過六分醉，
吃飯不要超過七分飽，
愛一個人不要超過八分
如果你也正在為愛迷惘，或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示：
愛一個人，要了解，也要開解;
要道歉，也要道謝;
要認錯，也要改錯;
要體貼，也要體諒;
是接受，而不是忍受;
是寬容，而不是縱容;
是支持，而不是支配;
是慰問，而不是質問;
是傾訴，而不是控訴;
是難忘，而不是遺忘;
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代;
是為對方默默祈求，
而不是向對方諸多要求;
可以浪漫，但不要浪費;
`*不要隨便牽手，
`*更不要隨便放手
爱真的是一门学问啊！我永远都学不会～做不好～
我有资格被爱吗？:(
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heyyo
Life in s'pore.
Sometimes we have to lose things before we can truly appreciate them :)
and i do believe that everything happen for a reason
Life goes up and down,
sadly it takes very little to get you down but just as little to bring you right back up.
Even if i am in bad mood, i have to smile and be nice to others
Don’t cry because it’s over, SMILE because it happened
so how's everyone doing?
i'm back to blogging! oh yeah recently was quite down and emo. hmmm
it's time to wake up and i have to grow up. gotta grow up. ;) hehehe
i dono you still care bout me or not. but i seriously hope you do. ^_*
mr chin. thanks for everything you did.
your support means alot to me.
i definitely can see how much you care and love me. i can feel it :D
我会慢慢发现你的好～你的改变～
也希望你能让我不后悔做这个决定～
Loves. xoxo
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Wednesday, March 7, 2012
认识我 你后悔吗？？
hmmm it's been a while.. hi there if you are still following me :)
i know i haven't been blogging much now.
there are many things happen in the last few weeks. almost 1month d i guess :)
i did mention forever doesn't exist in my facebook status. like forever love and best friend forever.
best friend may come and go so i just have to accept it.
you and i make the predictions about future continuously throughout our days
but actually no one can predict what will happen in the future.
sometimes i hope i could. i wanna see how things will go.... hmmm
认识我 你后悔吗？？
认识一个人也许只需要一分钟，了解一个人也许需要
几个月的时间。认识我，你后悔了吗？很多的人也都会说：“永远不会后悔”。
我知道很多人在说假话，因为没有事情的时候，你好
我好大家都好，可是当事情发生了，很多人都会有这
样的话：“认识你，真倒霉”“认识你，真后悔”。
生活中我们认识那么多人，能天天后悔吗？生命中值得我
们后悔的事，我们应该调整自己的心态，值得我们珍
惜的人，我们应该坦然接受。
在爱情的世界里，我们面对的常常是自己的爱人，也
在爱情的世界里，我们面对的常常是自己的爱人，也
许没有人 会问自己的爱人：“认识我，你后悔吗？”
不是不敢问，很多的时候，只因为害怕问是一种伤害
，所以有些话一辈子都说不出口的。
从爱人快乐的眼神里，我能感觉到他认识我从没有后
从爱人快乐的眼神里，我能感觉到他认识我从没有后
悔过；从爱人幸福的微笑里，我能感觉到他认识我从
没有后悔过。因为他没有后悔过，所以一直深深的爱
着我，因为没有后悔过，所以他给我了很多的快乐和
幸福。
“认识我，你后悔吗？”每个人问这句话的时候，都
“认识我，你后悔吗？”每个人问这句话的时候，都
希望对方是真诚的，都能用真心去回答。可是又有多
少人用真心去回答，也许只是随便的一个回答，就可
以让问话的人终生难忘，刻骨铭心。
如果真心对一个人，也许永远不后悔；如果对一个
如果真心对一个人，也许永远不后悔；如果对一个
人没有真心，也许一直都在后悔；如果你真爱了，就
不会后悔；如果你没有真情，会永远后悔的。有人说
付出了就会后悔，有人说得到了，就不会后悔，可是
我却想告诉朋友，付出了不一定就会后悔；得到了也
不一定会不后悔。
“认识我，你后悔吗?”不要这样问我，我喜欢真诚
的你，我也会做一个真诚的我，认识所有的人，我都
不会后悔，因为张爱玲说的好：“于千千万万人中，遇到你，只想真心的问一句，你也在这里呀”。
希望我们都用真心去面对问我们问题的朋友，用自己最真诚的心最感人的情说：
“认识你，我真的不后悔”。
朋友，你还过得好吗？因为有缘你我才相遇，因为有份，我们才交流，认
识你，我没有后悔。你后悔了吗？
我记得曾经有一个人告诉我，每个人的人生都会有很多个爱人，但总会有一个是自己最深爱的，最念念不忘的。时间是最好的疗伤药，不要憎恨. 把曾经的拥有当成美好的回忆。 生命还在继续. 时间还在流逝。别人怎么看你又有什么关系呢？傻也好，怪也罢，能有真心的笑，比什么都值得。
emo 的晚上
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Wednesday, October 26, 2011
my life
hi everyone.
well, it's been a long, long longgggg time since i've update my blog
i didn't blog for a long time because i'm busy with my studies and also i'm LAZY! hahah
since my blog is pretty rotten now, so im guessing it's time to update something. teehee*
i'm living in a hectic life. oh god, i'm so screwed
Many assignments to do, too much readings have to be done and i hate writing essay!
i'm trying hard to adapt to a new environment. have to make new friends in coll >.< sighh
but so far so good! :D life is getting better
I feel so emo recently
many things happen to me which make my feel so hard.
But lucky me i have them as my bestfriend ♥ who cheer me up, solve my problems
so Up to now i still survive!! thank you so much my dear bestfriends
thanks for the caring. you guys know me well
sometimes when i say i'm fine or okay, you guys will hug me tight and tell me' you're not my dear'
i know i got to learn to be strong and i will. no worries.
yeah u will only see my true smile when i'm with them.
now i know nothing lasts forever and friendships too.
But True friends will stay. i just hope we're best friend forever and i do believe.
For those friends who leave, i hope you can find your true friend too. :)
Long Bang! aww i love u guys the most
four of us
pretty ?! hahah
we seldom meet up but thanks for caring me still.
we still speak so much when me meet up. XD especially ah er!
we still speak so much when me meet up. XD especially ah er!
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Saturday, May 28, 2011
My weekend
Hello !
i'm here to wish you all have a great weekend ♥
i feel boring when it comes to Saturday night thinking about what to do.
yea it reminded me of the time i spent in CJ's house. i miss girls talk dear
we got the same thought and you know me well.
wait for my call okay?
It's hard to find true friends and remain them as true friends.
i found out very few are concern and sincere to be a true friend
So what we have to do is be positive with life.
You will find someone that will share everything and have the same interest with you
I will share my secret with my true friend
If i did to you, means i treat you as my true friend and i love you to be my friend.
but who treats me as her true friend? hmm i don't know.
i'm not a greedy girl, ONE is enough for me
i want a ♥girlfriend♥. hehehehehe
sometimes this gf will be more important than my bf ♥♥
and, i don't like to have a fake friendship. * refer to some *
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
these few days i spent a lot in online shopping
somemore i have no ppl to sponsor me :( i shouldn't rely on someone else i know
but maybe i used to it ad sighh
Self control is what i need right now.
all of them look so attracting like asking me to buy them. *slaps self*
can someone stop me from buying and eating? hahah! i'm officially brokee. damn!
eenee, stop me please! Lol
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Friday, May 27, 2011
Housemate day and Wendy's 20th birthday
Hello readers!
Another weekend has finally arived. that's why i got the time to blog.
It's another late post again. please forgive me! teehee
Hang out with my lovely housemate ♥♥Wendy♥♥ Shanhui ♥♥Joanne♥♥ Eggie ♥♥
and we called it as housemate day
Quite fun and happy spending time with them though we're just hang out for a lil while.
The quality of picture is good right?
Sui bi just got her new camera ~! so we can snap a lot of pictures.
Look yummy right?
i always love to eat chocolate muffin in kenny rogers
♥♥My girls ♥♥
Later then, prepared for wendy's birthday
any difference of my hair?
yes i know i look matured.but dont care lah!
i'm already 19++ ! Lol !
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